When can you can interrupt someone in a conversation?

Interrupting someone while they are talking is not a polite thing to do. However, there are some situation we have to interrupt people while they are talking for a good reason. There are  seven situations you can interrupt someone while they are talking without making them get mad from you or think you do not have good manners.

1- Lost of focus:
when someone lost focus and started to talking  about something that is not related to the topic and you are busy  because you have an appointment with a doctor, meeting, or anything else but at the same time you really want to listen to their story in this situation it is your right to tell them to get to the point. In fact, the person who lose his focus in what he have to say is a person who want to tell you about something exciting happened to him.

2-Gossiping:
Gossiping can be negative in different ways even though many peoples do it. It is not right thing to do because the other person can not talk or defend themselves by gossiping you can injustice to the other person. That  is why it is better to tell the person not to talk about that person or change the subject. In addition, it is the best thing to do because talking about other people is not something nice or good to do and you have to know if that person talking badly about other people she/he will talk badly about you as well.

3- Talking for too long:
sometimes people keep talking about something boring and no one want to listen to it is like that person talking to himself,  you can interrupt the person so you can all enjoy the conversation and have fun time together instead letting the other person talking to himself not knowing that you are not interested in what they are talking about.

4- when their word become inappropriate to say:
The worst thing can happen when you have  nice conversation with someone or group of people but when a someone says words that is not appropriate to say or even to listen to in this situation you can talk and stop the other person to talk because this conversation might end in a fight or end good friendship. Other situation,  when someone talks about something really series and the other person makes a joke this can make the other person really angry or mad because it is not not nice thing to do, so you can prevent someone from getting angry by stopping a person continuing making jokes.

5-monopoly conversation:
when someone talks about the same topic and do not want to change it for example a person want to talk only fashion, sport, politic or other subject that people got bored from listening to . In this situation you can interrupt the person because you are not enjoying the conversation neither the other people are so this is best thing to do, by breaking on the conversation you can let other people talk about things they are interested in and everyone will have chance to talk

6- when no one understand:
when you do not understand what a person is talking about and find what he is talking about is confusing  do not interrupt from the first word you did not understand try to listen. however, when the person is talking about things to do or instructions you can interrupt to ask for more explanation so you can understand what  you have to do and not to get confused or mess the things up.

7- say something cheerful:
when someone is talking about something interesting you can tell them things that are cheerful like WOW, Great, Nice, Well done, or other words that person will like to listen to and would know you are interested on what they are talking about  but be careful not to say it too much because the person will be annoyed or he will think you are faking it, try to limit what you say. you can also you can show the person you are attentive by looking at their eye when they talk or move your head.

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10 signs someone is lying to you

I think it is really  interesting to know if the person talking to you is telling me the truth or if they are creating something. Instead of guessing what the person is telling me the truth or he is just lying.  There are 10 signs that I want to share it with you in how to to know if a person telling you the truth or just lying to you.

They change their head position quickly: When you ask question to someone and they move their head or their other body parts, you have to know that this person is not going to tell you the truth.

Their breath changes: When someone shoulders moves up and their voice get swallowed their  breath Is going to be heavily.

They stand very still: When you have a conversation with someone it is common see them move around but it is weird to see someone standing like a rock.

They repeat words or phrases: When someone is trying to convince you to believe what they are saying they are going to repeat the same word again and again. 

They provide too much information: By Saying things that are not requested or not related to the topic, this way they are trying to convince you and make you believe in what they are saying.

They touch or cover their mouth or vulnerable body parts: They are talking and then close their mouth that means they do not want to tell you the truth or do not want to tell you everything. They may touch their throat, head or any other vulnerable part in their body.

They shuffle their feet: When their feet shuffles mean they are nervous and want to walk away from this situation. 

It becomes difficult for them to speak: They find it difficult to speak because they feel stress and it might be because it is hard for them to talk about it or think about something to say to you at this time.

They stare at you without blinking much: They might be looking at you without moving their eyes away from you. They are trying to be under control so they do not move around a lot.

They tend to point a lot: When they become defensive they are trying to blame you because they are angry  that you have discovered their lie.

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Stop being Envious

 There are sometimes when we feel envious from our friends if they have things better than us like more money, better life, life style, or other things they have more than us. Being envious can make people avoid you because of the problems they might face with you in the future. This kind of behaviour can make you not be thankful for the things that you have.

Be Thankful for what you have:

When we think about what others have can make us not see the the good things we have in our life. Instead of thinking how big your friend house is think about the people who don't have house to live in; in this way you may think that you have more than many other people.

Be Happy For Them

Most of the time when see people who have things better than us we feel envy  for things they deserve to have  without thinking to be happy for them and say they worked hard to get what they have. Think twice about what you have to feel toward your friend scuess.

They worked for it

We have to remind ourself they did not get it within a day; they might be spended days and sacrafied many things to get what they have now. So think about the things they did to reach their dream and what you have to do to reach what you want.

Life is not always fair

There are people luckier than us  so we have to accept it instead of feeling bad not be have their life or their things. Accept what you have the thing you have and try work hard to get what they have.

Your Time Will come

You have to wait for your time instead of being rush to get things faster than the time you deserve. Remember that one time you will get what you deserve at the perfect time.

Think about other things

There are many other things more important to think about instead of being envy from things that other people have. So think about things that can make value in your life ot try to do something to have their things or life.

Lower yourself steam

When you see other people have better than you this make you be lower than them and the way people see you will change because of the way compare yourself to others.

Take the advantage

Sometimes you can take the advantage of being envy from someone by working hard to get what they have can be better than just talking about other people so try your best to get the things you want.

We have to think about the good things of being envious from others can help us reach you dream but if we just talk about what others have without doing something this is a big problem. Concentrate  of the  positive about the things you can have instead of focusing on the negative things.