Friday, April 18, 2014

Stop being Envious



 There are sometimes when we feel envious from our friends if they have things better than us like more money, better life, life style, or other things they have more than us. Being envious can make people avoid you because of the problems they might face with you in the future. This kind of behaviour can make you not be thankful for the things that you have.



Be Thankful for what you have:
When we think about what others have can make us not see the the good things we have in our life. Instead of thinking how big your friend house is think about the people who don't have house to live in; in this way you may think that you have more than many other people.

Be Happy For Them
Most of the time when see people who have things better than us we feel envy  for things they deserve to have  without thinking to be happy for them and say they worked hard to get what they have. Think twice about what you have to feel toward your friend scuess.

They worked for it
We have to remind ourself they did not get it within a day; they might be spended days and sacrafied many things to get what they have now. So think about the things they did to reach their dream and what you have to do to reach what you want.

Life is not always fair
There are people luckier than us  so we have to accept it instead of feeling bad not be have their life or their things. Accept what you have the thing you have and try work hard to get what they have.

Your Time Will come
You have to wait for your time instead of being rush to get things faster than the time you deserve. Remember that one time you will get what you deserve at the perfect time.

Think about other things
There are many other things more important to think about instead of being envy from things that other people have. So think about things that can make value in your life ot try to do something to have their things or life.

Lower yourself steam
When you see other people have better than you this make you be lower than them and the way people see you will change because of the way compare yourself to others.

Take the advantage
Sometimes you can take the advantage of being envy from someone by working hard to get what they have can be better than just talking about other people so try your best to get the things you want.

We have to think about the good things of being envious from others can help us reach you dream but if we just talk about what others have without doing something this is a big problem. Concentrate  of the  positive about the things you can have instead of focusing on the negative things.


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