Showing posts with label life-style. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life-style. Show all posts

Thursday, April 17, 2014

ٍٍStop Complaining



Complaining is a bad habit to adopt ; this habit can make you think negatively in many situations and avoid being a positive thinker. This type of conversations can make make people avoid you because they don't enjoy listening to you. There are several ways to stop complaining.

Worst Exception:
There are sometimes when we except more than the result we get so in this way we feel depressed and sad from the result we got; instead of only thinking about the positive things that might happen we also have to except the worst things that might happen in that situation.

Busy:
We see some of our friends do not complain about other peoples and their life situations did you wonder why they are like this; the don't complain because the are busy with other things in their life or think they have other things are more important than complain about things that they see is not important to waste time to talk about it. Try to be busy with things that are more important than complaining.

Less Judgmental:
There are sometimes we don't listen to the half of the story which might make us feel bad about the other person and let us complain about the story we were told. Our mistake we judge people that we met for several times and in my opinion we don't have to think about them because we don't know their stories.

Accept it:
complaining about a situation will not change anything about the events that happened; even if we complain about the people they will not change. We also have to think about people that are more important to us.

complaining will not change anything so you have to be happy for what happen even if it was the opposite off what what we need. As result we can't change anything that had happened



Thursday, April 10, 2014

Giving your forgivness



Forgiving someone hurt you by a word or an action can be really difficult to forgive them after what they did to you. Forgiving them can be the best gift you give yourself.

1- .Inner peace
When you forgive someone for something they did or said to you, instead of being angry thinking about that person you will enjoy your day every moment.  

2- No Burden
When you forgive them It is not going to be hard to face the person next time. When you want to ask them for help when you have no other person to ask them. In this way you will feel more comfortable around them  if you saw them in a event, party, mall, or anywhere else.

3- Not Tied Emotion
When you forgive them there will be no anger or bad feeling hold in your heart. When we forgive peoples we might think they might nit feel sorry for what they did so we have to hold these feeling to let them be really sorry but in reality forgiving them can make you feel better.

4- Enjoying Your Time
When you are done from the bad feelings have for that personyou are going to feel free to enjoy you time more. Being joyful is the best choice to make to feel free and happy.